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Jhoanna, 33 from Douglas, Northern Cape

I am not your everyday type of woman...am too full of life and positive minded, I just want one caring and naughty man... let's just give it a try ;)

Sassyd, 30 from Benoni, Gauteng

Decent lady looking for fun...

Rushy, 27 from Benoni, Gauteng

Rushy has yet to add his profile. Ask Rushy for more info.

Tony, 35 from Benoni, Gauteng

Hi, my name is Tony, I am completely new at this, so here goes.... Im keen to broaden my horizons... I really like to please the girl I'm with, nothing does it more for me than pleasuring a woman... Mmmm :-) that does it for me!! Was afraid that I will be missing out before I get too old... So thought what the hell lets give this site a go! Like to keep active indoors and outdoors, fun loving young at heart gentleman looking for naughty discreet fun.... Drop me a line if you are intersted it will be very exciting... What ever your fantasies are ;-P

Nadia, 54 from Durbanville, Western Cape

I am a very feminine, intelligent woman looking for a fwb. I am well groomed and said to be attractive, with a great sense of humor. I prefer tall men, well groomed and intelligent and of course, very discreet. I am not into 3-somes or orgies, and anal is not for me. Age group 40 to 55, and please, if you cannot send a decent message, rather leave it. Let's see what happens ....

Taylor, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Straight to the point and as subtle as a sledgehammer. No married men and Caucasian men only. Anybody younger than me need not message me. Kindly respect my personal preferences.

Hannelie, 39 from Benoni, Gauteng

Here to meet likeminded guys and girls for NSA adult fun ... MMF and MFF threesomes. Guys must be well hung, 17cm+ ...

Natalie, 23 from Benoni, Gauteng

I'm a young African girl and I'm a university student. An introvert who loves food. Bookworm too! I'm just looking for some fun and I'm interested in white guys :)

Issayonce, 23 from Four Ways, Gauteng

got off a four year relationship. Been single for 4 months now in trying to heal. However I can not feel sorry for myself all my life. I realise I have to dust myself and get up cause after all life goes on. I was sceptical coming online but I saw a couple who met on tinder get married and I believed theres hope when we waste "data" lol....oh that was not funny. I'd be lying if I say I want something serious. A coffee here and there would be sweet. I do have my reservations seeing the whole thing that's been happening in the country. Girls get killed so suddenly. Thus far every lil message has been sweet and overwhelming. I do hope our lil conversations will strengthen our friendship. God bless and safe cyber. Xx

Niccirose, 25 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am here to have fun and try new things.

Bee, 35 from Paarl, Western Cape

I'm a single down to earth, know what i want lady. Hygiene is highly important to me and i expect it from the person ill be with, I want one regular well hung friend , if you not that person dont waste my time and yours. I love the outdoors , hiking, camping generally life itself .Unfortunatly i dont host. Hope there will be someone out there wanting the same.

Carlos, 33 from Benoni, Gauteng

I'm 33 years old I'm in benoni I like having fun.

Lynx, 50 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Creative artist and thinker. Yin and yang between introvert and extrovert. Would love to share good times with naughty relevant other.

Melody, 41 from Benoni, Gauteng

I like to play

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