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Bongy, 34 from Charlestown, Kwazulu Natal

im slim,dark in complexion,love sex but im not looking for one night stand.i want a man who knows his game.all races are welcome.im a bit shy so I want to meet a guy who will take that away lol.I really like listening to good music that relaxes me and comforts me when im feeling down makes me feel great

Pearl, 73 from Bloubergrant, Western Cape

Mad Irish Girl......My mind is full or many things but it is not swing, men are many its so uncanny. But here I am putting my thoughts on show . Yes Had few requests for dates for men who could not wait Eager as beavers bodies all a quiver .Men are on the go here there and i would love to share .But requests for pix instead of using their .....k look for the kicks to jerk and be jolly . Well at 72 i dont want to sex talk I want to walk the walk talk the talk . Ok, my eyes smile, they're Irish and linger a while boobs and my bum will be your idea of fun So let's just get licking, lapping and sticking... with the tongue, I dont want a man with a wife it causes me strife or have a girl friend That is surely the end. So be free like me. lets play ,squirt and please the flirt . age is important and so is the face and the word which rhymes with face . to be wms

Andre, 56 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I love life and enjoy it to the fullest.I love good and clean sex and can have it every day. I just love it, if u too, let's hook up and have some fun

Mary, 44 from Charlestown, Kwazulu Natal

I would like to meet a well endowed, adventurous African man for funtimes.

Carin, 31 from Alberton, Gauteng

I am a curvaceous woman looking for fun and excitement. Sometimes I like it gentle, but other times I like it hard. Looking for FWB to maximise fun. Whites only pls. DD free!

Lloyd, 54 from Steenberg, Western Cape

In a sexually conservative marraige...looking for an open minded lady that wants to explore intimacy and excitement.

Samantha, 51 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Looking for fun times. Regret that I will not reply to anyone who is not within my ethnic group and no over 50's

Dori, 41 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

I'm a single parent, looking for that one man that can assist me back onto my feet and keep me there. A man that knows how to spoil. Preferably married. He needs to be comfortable in his own life to help me get comfortable in mine. No chancers please

Tasha, 33 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Hi So I have been on this site for about 6 weeks and it's been interesting to say the least, I'm going to give it one more go before I give up lol So a bit about myself I'm fun easy going spontaneous I get along with most people and don't take people at face value, I'm a little shy when I first meet someone but once I'm comfy with you and get to know you better all shyness disappears, because I'm newish to PE I don't know how to meet new people I'm not a sit in a bar alone kinda girl so hoping to meet someone who wants to make a friend who enjoys going out even if it's for coffee or a 3 am skinny dip, I have a naughty side too wink wink nudge nudge and that would be an added bonus if that's thrown into the mix as well so if you not married or attached and looking for what I'm looking for then send me a message and let's see where it leads. P'S please look at my profile details before replying

Jeanette, 67 from Charlestown, Kwazulu Natal

Ek is 'n alleenlopende dame wat langs Roodeplaat dam bly en wat, iemand soek wat naby my bly om op 'n gereelde basis te kan kuier en bietjie uitgaan vir geselsskap, ens. om die eensaamheid te verdryf. Wil nie graag 'n STORM loop veroorsaak deur te veel detail te verskaf J3 nie. Slegs enkellopende blanke mans asb.

Zinhle, 44 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I just wanna have fun. Let's meet first for drinks or coffee, if the feeling is mutual, then we start playing. Only interested in CLEAN guys with CLEAN venue for a hookup. All races are welcome, so funny I wasn't comfortable with white guys, but that has changed ;)

Thalitha, 29 from Charlestown, Kwazulu Natal

Am a open mnded ldy open love meetng new people.love life am frndly love indoors more thn outdoors

Manda, 41 from Oudtshoorn, Western Cape

I am a full figured woman that enjoys meeting new people! I like to meet fun people that loves life ant live it to the fullest!

Mat, 32 from Four Ways, Gauteng

Easy going person looking someone who can have a conversation before the fun. Will retry almost anything at least once

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