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Nicky, 36 from Eland, Gauteng

White young men only for NSA I am a high maintenance kind of lady. If your profile is fake do not message me I have no time for childish games.

Sarah, 32 from Bronkhorstspruit, Gauteng

I am 32 years old,sexy n beautiful, with a 6 years old son,staying with my fiance.

Pieter, 49 from Germiston, Gauteng

Travel a lot just want to have fun no strings

Ham, 30 from Eland, Gauteng

Nothing as satisfying as giving a woman an orgasm. Making a woman moan in pleasure is music to my ears. I can handle ladies of any size and age.

Dee, 35 from Soshanguve, Gauteng

Cool quite girl, enjoy wild sex, love reading & writing, watching movies. If you're up for a fantasy you've never had then hook me up

Cheryl, 44 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for someone to chat to, lets see what happens... Oh and watch your mouth, it can be used for more delicious activities. So here are my preferences, no offense intended. I feel its only right that I tell you. So here they are: Only men from 37 to 49yrs. No men of African descent. I appreciate a profile pic. Even the penis pics. There are so many on this site, they all starting to look the same.....lol.

Janine, 34 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Fun loving couple always exploring , we do everything with love and Awesomeness

Lisa, 43 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Lots of NSA attention to give to the right kinda man

Audry, 42 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

WHITE Only.....MMF or FFM. Love it. CFNM, great, tease men, watch them in the heat of passion, playing with themself... Great. Hubby always to watch, but always love him to join. Any woman that whants a permanent lady friend, with occasional man to assist, this is the place to be. No complications or jealousy.

Janey, 42 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have taken the time to write this.... Surely you can take the time to READ it!!! Looking to spice up my life. Need some excitement !! I love sex, i love the idea of meeting a stranger and having a good fuck. Experimenting and playing with toys is great !! I enjoy watching a guy touch himself. I have a bit of a naughty side and am a huge flirt, so be warned. I have a great sense of humor and I love to see that in another person .....so please show me yours. If you can laugh with me and most importantly laugh at yourself you most definitely have my attention. Seduce my mind and my body will follow. Please remember: Looks, size and ability DO NOT nullify common courtesy, even on an adult chat site !! I am financially independent and I expect the same. Life can be such a fantasy if you want it to be. I am not your Honey, Dear, Sweetie or Darling. Don't assign me 'pet-name' unless you get to know me first. Do NOT send me your BBM / Whatsapp / phone number / email / Satellite Dish Code / Dogs date of Birth. I will no contact you off site unless I get to know you first.... very well !!!

Joanne, 52 from Klerksdorp, North West

I once had sex in my friends lounge, no doors..................... I would like to meet fun friends online that doesn't want strings attached. Chat only. No calls. No meetings yet. Yes im not single, but I do like to have sex, but "oupa" don't! I would like to get naughty online, and would like to talk to someone who cant see my face, and give him a dream of a blowjob!! The prize? If he tells me he had to go and clean up after he had a awesome orgasm!

Petro, 47 from Gauteng, Gauteng

We are a married couple looking for some fun with other couples friendship , if you are married and lonesome do not both.er we are only intrested if you are a couple

Noksy, 48 from Eland, Gauteng

Simple lady who loves laughing. Married but.... Would like to have a friend for chatting and more. A bit shy. Loves movies and reading

Ekwil, 54 from Vereeniging, Gauteng

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