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Still wasting your time on social networking sites or gimmicky free apps? When you need a good shag and fast, turn to the tried and tested site designed for people like you. My Bed or Yours is designed for genuine people looking for sex. Our enthusiastic community do not tolerate time wasters or scammers. With the help of our dedicated support team, we maintain a large database of genuine, verified members in South Africa so you can be confident you are communicating with people genuinely interested in meeting for sex, sharing photos or meeting on chat/webcam for some fun.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

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Samu, 37 from Boksburg, Gauteng

I'm a lady looking for fun sex in bedroom I'm willing to learn new tricks. I wud love to meet a guy who knows his story who is willing to teach me new ways in bed someone who wi Give me all I've ever dreamed about in bed. I love all kinds of dicks as long as u know how to use it. U must be the one who will book the place and pay for it.drop me a line lets hook up guys.condom users only please

Nic, 42 from Brits, North West

Nic has yet to add his profile. Ask Nic for more info.

Claudia, 39 from Hartswater, Northern Cape

Married bored and lonely looking for some fun please white men only sorry my preference

Khaya, 36 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

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