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Sarah, 47 from Table View, Western Cape

I am an attractive professional woman, who has been divorced for a while, who is looking for one person to explore with. Please see the following requirements before you contact me: -STD free! -age preferably between 40-55; -hygiene is important to you and you take care of your body; -non smoker; -no married men or men who are attached in any shape, size or form (please read that again); -you are available for and enjoy weekends away; -no pictures of genitals showing; -if you are looking to increase your bed post notches- please pass on; - please do not...

Marek, 52 from Bellville, Western Cape

Just feel that we all only live once - so why not share with many more .......... At the same time one shouldn't take life too seriously. So, let's have some wild NSA fun. I'm willing and able if you are .......... Though I don't quite go to the gym daily, I generally take good care of my entire body. So, give me the opportunity to fulfill your WILDEST fantasies - you will gauranteed NOT be disappointed .......... I don't do prostitutes or escourts - so don't expect any of their normal rewards from me. I prefer the fuller...

Tumi, 29 from Oyster Bay, Eastern Cape

Looking for sex partner...matured and reliable...

Thandi, 26 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Lots of safe fun and a lot of adventure

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