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Keem, 30 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

Any Responsible man can contact me, If i respond then you know am interested, Only serious one's please. Please Please do not ask me unimportant or Stupid questions. Or try to know everything about me on the first day. NB Am not sex starved so please don't think i want to FUCK every Dick and Harry on this site. May be Only one Responsible, Serious person. Only one is enough for me. And Please stop sending me your phone number and BBM pin with your first message without my permission, it shows you did not even read my profile note before writing me and it gives you A ZERO CHANCE

Elexa, 37 from Pretoria, Gauteng

I am a 36 yrs old woman looking for a discreet relationship,i am very reserved and down to earth lady.

Dean, 54 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

I'm self employed and looking for fun

Mark, 30 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

Looking for someone fun, open, honest \u0026 humble who isn't afraid to try new things. I also find a smart woman exceptionally attractive, that being said, I enjoy talking about science,technology,space,spirituality,business,politics \u0026 the endless variables this life has to offer etc. If you like the following - spanking,choking,hair pulling, dirrrrty talk, squirting (my absolute favorite!) and having orgasms simultaneously, ideally multiple times, we will prob get along very well! I love dark yet intellectual humour, IEGeorge Carlin \u0026 Jimmy Carr. I'm 1.8m tall, average build, green eyes, black hair. I also enjoy watching couples, being watched with a partner. I'v had a few mff 3sum's with 2 lady friends before so I'm fairly experienced \u0026 open. :P I can host after work or on the weekends. Also enjoy being outdoors, trance parties etc

Jany, 33 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm NOT here for NSA FUN. I can only chat with DECENT guys. Pls if u have a naked pics DON'T contact me cos to me u are naughty. But I can be naughty with that SPECIAL guy. I just wanna chat but anything is POSSIBLE I can be your LOVER if u are loking for one. But only if I like u

Elaine, 39 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Regular coloured girl, covered in chocolate brown skin staying in ta hoods. I dont pretend, work and loads of stuff to keep me busy bt we all human. Loneliness do hav a way of getting in ur mind and u just wanna mmmmmmmmmm #hornyhorny#! I'm no supermodel... im a large gal, warm heart AND with a body just Overflowing with awsumness..... We all hav fantasies sooo let me b urz and you b mine.. rock each others world. Y am i on this website? . uhmmm well, On here to experience ta naughty fun side of me, myself and I. Soooo if u want to be my FRIEND, hook up, sex sex sex, nsa fun.. give me a shout out! keep it discreet we all adults.. im actually horny while typing this.. #finger# Please note I am nt interested in 3SUM's. I'M ta only gal u would b fucking.

Kate, 29 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

bubbly person, looking for some fun and just sex no strings attached pls

Sarah, 43 from Pretoria, Gauteng

A mother of two who's looking for a friend with benefits or NSA sex; whichever shall occur first. Preferably aged between 36 and 50. Race is not an issue.

Angelo, 33 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

Angelo has yet to add his profile. Ask Angelo for more info.

Tanz, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a keen student of new ideas and desires Everyone has a dark passion for the unknown and i want to discover mine with someone willing to explore with me who is not scared of expressing themselves and enjoy dirty crazy nights filled with nothing but hard rough fucking and pure pleasures

Nomusa, 47 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

down-to-earth woman, single, here for fun and enjoy da life to the fullest. looking for handsome mature man who can satisfy me sexually and share good moments & laughter together.

Amy, 43 from Ramsgate, Kwazulu Natal

Swinging lovers. Loke to have sex with older and chubby guys. My partner loves girls and even chubby women. We do swinging. Originally from Gauteng

Sphe, 24 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

I'm a young, ambitious, BBW with curves in the right places.. I like 2 go out n party with friends, enjoy cooking, n listening 2 music. I have a 'thing' for mature men and big dicks, no matter d race- as long as u gonna b pleasing me accordingly, I don't mind. I love the outdoors. I DON'T do married men.. Should u want 2 know more, feel free 2 ask!

Asseneth, 45 from Malelane, Mpumalanga

Am 44yrs old matured lady full figure looking for casual sex experience no strings attached with blackman whose full of fun know his story pussy fucker.am looking for some1 to fulfil my wildest fantasies satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. I luv experimenting in the bedroom in fact the more sex the better as far as am concerned

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