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Pauline, 41 from Fence, Lancashire

Having to change my profile again due to chicken none shows. If you can't perform then don't waste our time. I'm looking to be fucked hard, I'm not looking for a pen friend or to play picture tennis, grow up for God's sake. So I'm a big girl, yes a big girl with a big apatite for sex especially sucking dick. I'm size 18 with 40FF boobs and trimmed pussy. Hubby is present at all times. If your under 25 or over 50 then jog on. If you can not accommodate at your place then jog on. Looking for real meets not message after message. I don't swallow that is my only rule. I'm 40 years old and know what I want. Don't speak to me like crap or you'll he blocked. Looking for someone to film me and hubby. When he's finished you can have your turn. You must be within 25 miles as we won't travel any further. This is a straight forward profile. Fuck me hard or fuck off. Tired of the time wasters now. Simple. Just a quick update for the deaf, blind or just plain stupid. If your under 25 or over 50 then I'm 100 an hour. That should put you off.

A, 27 from Datchet, Berkshire

A sent you a message: "Holiday inn" (yesterday at 2:12am)

Rosie, 47 from Esher, London

Only on for chat don't like liars there worse than thiefs not into chattin married men I like havin a laff and joke and hope u got Gd sense of humour

Faizah, 26 from Cambridge, Cambridgeshire

Faizah has yet to add her profile.

Elaine, 45 from Wickford, Essex

I'm a happily married lady looking for an extra m or f for 3 fun No strings fun discreet. Guy must have a beard Not interested in men that just wanna show their cocks on here

Kayza, 38 from Gospel Oak, London

Looking for a lovers and friends type of relationship with someone who knows how to: Treat her like a lady and have the upmost Respect always... I shall reveal the rest of me if I wish to That would be telling wouldn't it! It's good to be a bit of a Mystery... Hence no Interest in profiles with only a Dick pic. Lol nothing left for the imagination... I detest arrogance please stay clear if you are! I'm not interested in married/Attached men, single guys only!

Nicnic, 35 from Bolton, Greater Manchester

Can't be doing with lyers ,want honesty n fun take it from there,dont bother messaging if texting other women,no time wasters plz,what ya see is what u get n I expect the same.. have a lovely day/night xx

Maroon, 31 from Chelmsford, Essex

Maroon has yet to add his profile. Ask Maroon for more info.

Hel, 50 from Rotherham, South Yorkshire

Ideally looking to regular meets hopefully might lead to a relationship

Del, 48 from Esher, London

Hi,I'm a real female,promise ;-) the photos are of me and are recent. I'm from Yorkshire originally,still have the accent and go back for visits now and then. I'm 48,look a bit younger, have long blond hair and green eyes,I'm 5'2" and size 8 I'm straightforward,easy to get on with a quick sense of humour,bit of a night owl,if you're yawning at 10 and get up at the crack of dawn,we won't get on. Single,no kids,ideally looking for a casual relationship,with fun and good times in and out of bed. You could let me know what kind of thing you are looking for,maybe chat a bit and hopefully meet up but please don't be offended if I don't reply straight away,or at all,I don't talk to loads of people at the same time and rarely to anyone without a face pic,I do supply mine to people I get talking to. I'm very unlikely to meet anyone who's not single,if you are not please at least have the decency to mention it straight away,if it's not on your profile that is. If you do happen to be tallish a bit younger than me and quite local(Glasgow/Ayrshire) feel free to point yourself out loudly but I'll read all messages I get as you never know who is going to make you tick. I'm a smoker,not over fond of being put out like the cat if I want a cig lol,so smokers or at least tolerant please.

Luke, 37 from Esher, London

International cheese smuggler I'm a unicorn in disguise, but shush, don't tell everyone. 6 foot 2, slim. I like to party from time to time, but I also run my own successful broadcast sound engineering company. Just got back from 5 weeks in Thailand and Cambodia. Already planning th next trip. Musician, guitar and sing mainly, drums and sax too. Love to cook, ride my motorbike, travel, to name a few things. Not been on here for ages as I have been too busy with work. Things are quieter now so I'd love to meet some like minded people for some fun times. I have an insatiable appetite for giving head and my sex drive is so sky high at the moment I doubt anyone will be able to keep up. If you think you can definitely get in touch. No real type, I just like people who I feel like I get on with and have a bit of a connection with. I'm not looking for anything serious but if the right person comes along who knows. Come say hi. Luke

Bianca, 33 from Tuffley, Gloucestershire

Hi everybody, I just moved from London last January. By the way, Im very interested in outdoor activities and I am also indulged in B D S M for the past 2 years now... I am looking for someone who is interested to learn and to be a part of this lifestyle... Don't hesitate to catch my attention if interested.....

Blondiex, 23 from Tollcross, Strathclyde

Blondiex has yet to add her profile.

Skye, 42 from Notting Hill, London

Hello, I'm an attractive single lady who's bright, independent, loving, kind and very passionate. **IF YOU ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND WE ARE NOT SUITED. CLICK ELSEWHERE ** **I AM EMPLOYED AND DO NOT WISH TO MEET A MAN TO FINANCE MY LIFESTYLE ** I'm seeking a passionate possible long-term Affair with a married man. Companionship, lots of laughter, drinks, dining etc.. and erotic intimacy. I'm Single but do not want a conventional relationship. Nor am I interested in being on singles dating sites for one night stands. I like being a Mistress. I can be very discreet and more importantly, not wanting to break up anyone's marriage. I am emotionally balanced and have no fantasy of running off into the sunset with a married man. An affair with a married man suits my lifestyle as I'm quite busy and could only meet up possibly once a week. I'm attracted to caucasian men who are tall, 6ft and over. He would be intelligent,loving, caring, passionate and kind. Also, enjoys making love over just having sex. If you feel we may be suited do get in touch. Skye

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