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Lola, 52 from Gaywood, Norfolk

Enjoy male company,want to make good friendships with benefits to . I like classy men who are sexy but not lewd or vulgar.lntelligence and good conversation and refinement is far more important than perfect features or physique. A passionate nature means more to me than wealth Older men welcome so long as they are in full working order! :-)

Tracey, 51 from Dartmouth Park, London

I am submissive woman and love dominant men, I'm looking for a man who has a dominant personality and likes some fun, I love being spanked and I find being blindfolded very erotic, I'm of medium height and have a curved figure, I am open minded and also like a man to take control...

Liz, 52 from Yelverton, Devon

In need of some wicked fun. Not looking for lots of partners just a special one and who knows where it could lead from there. Preferably at least 6ft tall as I like to wear high heels and don't like looking down on my men, unless you're laying down of course! I promise to bring out the best in you, not the stress in you :) LOVES - running, cycling and the great outdoors, red wine, log fires, music (anything goes from opera to rock) live concerts and so much more............ HATES - time wasters and players NB. I will not respond to those without a profile picture, and filters are on here for a reason, sorry. The man who is attracted to me because of my pretty face or nice body, won't be by my side forever. But the man who can see how beautiful my heart is, will never leave me.

Chaz, 47 from Chichester, West Sussex

Athletic lady looking for a male 'friend with benefits' for some fun. Prefer a gentleman who takes care of himself and his body. Who works out. Who can dominate and be dominated. Open minded and enjoys sex :) ..... would prefer if you are over 6ft tall, single and local-ish to me. PS. No timewasters please !

S, 36 from Havering Atte Bower, London

Shy BBW with big heavy tits and a juicy clit wants an experienced gentlemen to fuck me well. Need a man to help me relax and let go! Love lots of kissing and cuddling!! If you can handle a big girl then get in touch!!!! I can't accommodate but am happy to travel.

Chryssie, 49 from Croxley Green, Hertfordshire

PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME CONTACTING ME IF YOU'RE OVER 50, STOCKY, ASIAN OR HAVE AN EMPTY PROFILE. I'm an intelligent, responsive 'BBW' (size 28) seeking something REGULAR, and hopefully at least semi-committed, with a reliable, honest and highly-sexed single man in the London area (NW especially, or Herts/Bucks). You will need to be broad-minded, confident, and comfortable being seen in public with a big woman. Please be Caucasian or light-skinned/mixed race, communicative, 25-50, slim/athletic build, decently endowed and preferably a non-smoker. Stamina and a short refractory period are bonuses, as is being cut. Initially at least, safe sex is important to me; this means you don't whinge about using condoms, and your performance isn't hampered by them. Please, no doms, slaves, anal obsessives or men who want to "lick my pussy for hours" - it's boring. You should also be aware that I don't shave or wax, and won't just because you've watched too much porn and think it's normal (ditto facials). I'm looking for a normal, adult sexual relationship, not a teen's fantasy. I'm not interested in either physical or psychological BDSM, anal, rimming, watersports, cross-dressing etc. - just lusty, straight up sex (and lots of it!)

Emily, 45 from Bath, Avon

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Mary, 26 from Havering Atte Bower, London

I am a bi girl who likes kinky sex I love women more and will only go with a man in a threesome NO SINGLE MEN

Heidi, 30 from Havering Atte Bower, London

Hi everyone I'm heidi and I'm on looking for a great chat and a laugh so if your that just come and chat

David, 56 from Banstead, Surrey

Just a guy living a normal life In the position to take things easier Seeking a woman who has an interest in role play Being dominant over her sub for her pleasure and amusement would hope for something on going I am single 56 o,hac ,pro career Easy going,will travel Happy to chat ,answer any questions Not weird, non scene ,discreet Thanks David

A, 27 from Datchet, Berkshire

Just looking for fun with a regular playmate that love her pussy lickt

Daisyboo, 41 from Farsley, West Yorkshire

BBW seeks new FB. Single female seeking no strings fun with a regular friend with benefits.... I am selective, not interested in risky, completely random hook ups. If I see something in your profile that appeals I'll want to chat to see if we are like minded before I consider meeting up.

Cindy, 41 from Blackheath, London

Just wanna be wanna be yours

Kenny, 47 from Crewe, Cheshire

hi im kenny 5ft 11 .new here been single for 5 years now so been busy in work and now thinking af having some fun

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