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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange their most intimate thoughts and desires. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.
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It's a crowded market out there, and that's just dating sites. Once you factor in online personals pages on local news sites or mobile hookup apps it gets hard to know what you're getting into. It sometimes seems like everyone and their dog is setting up another quick dating service. We've been around long enough to see people come and go, which should be enough to reassure you that we might just know a few tricks of the trade by now.
Where most of our competitors fail is in trying to trick their members with fake profiles, or not taking enough care of their customers' security and privacy. They usually then skimp on the whole concept of customer service, making a toxic mix that drives them straight back out of business. That's not how we do things.
We don't make sample profiles. Instead, every single person registered on My Bed or Yours is a real person, just like you. They've come here with the same agenda as you: to have fun. They might be just wanting to flirt at first, but everyone here is looking for someone to meet up with, or spend time online with. When everyone's here for the same reason, there's no stopping the party.
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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.
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Hi thanks for looking at my profile. I'm Wendy 36 years old I'm a 6ft sexy sassy blonde who loves life and her special people in it. I have a 15 year old son and recently just separated from my husband. I'm looking to go on dates, to have fun , get to know someone and see where it goes.
I haven't put up a picture but happy to send one. I'm blonde, blue eyed, 5'6", average build / slightly curvy. I'm not looking for a relationship. I work hard play hard. I'm looking for a friend with benefits ! Discreet fun wanted ! I'm not looking for a toy boy - nor an older man. I like a nice body, muscular, a sense of humour I'm a sucker for a hard back massage ! I'm not looking to bed hop or a three some: I would like a genuine guy for a discreet relationship. Maybe the impossible is possible !
Enjoy chilling to music. Like giving and receiving pleasure. Looking for well mannered and good communicator in the bedroom. Foreplay is the key for me. In turn will do my utmost to help you achieve your sexual high. Please note that if yr profile not completed will not respond. Please no dick pics. Wait to hear from you. C
Hi I'm 47 looking to have chats possible discreet meets can accommodate would also be interested in any bi curious female
Bubbly blonde grey blue eyes size 12 5"2 curvy and fun and no cock pics complete turn off
I am here to try in consented
I'm 47 red hair blue eyes cuddly and looking for discreet relationships
Hi if you read my profile, and you are slightly interested and want to know more, message me and I will tell what ever you want to know. X
Here for regular local fun as I don't drive but if you are willing to visit then bonus lol I'm 36 I don't often go for older guys (unless you're a ringer for Ewan mcgregor Jared Leto or Adam from hollyoaks then age does not matter lol) so I'm setting my filter to 37-25yrs if I don't reply then please do not be offended as I go by initial attraction so unfortunately no pic no reply I do prefer faces and I'm happy to put one up on request if you've also done so :) happy searching xx I'm after fun and excitement not drama sorry x
Hi looking for NSA discreet relationship feeling a bit trapped. Would love an erotic adventure with someone that could bring back the fun and adventure into my sex life . I'm a retired gentleman from a Senior position. Love to party love to dance. Love to treat a lady . An unselfish lover the women always comes first (excuse the Pun). Love to fulfill fantasies for others as well as my own. Genuine replies only please
First of all, I am married. Best to be honest so that anyone for who that is a big no-no can avoid me like the plague. I haven't got the plague, but if you don't like married men, just pretend I have!! I'm not sure what I am after from this site but feel free to make suggestions. I'm not the kind of person who has ever bed-hopped; I've always had to make a link with someone first. You'll be glad to know that I won't be putting any dick pics up on the site. They're in my private collection and to be honest they're not the prettiest things to look at are they? If I'm too worried about showing my face on here then I'm not going to inflict the sight of that on you as well!! ;) If you want to know anything or want to find out how many branches of the ugly tree I hit on the way down then feel free to message me. I'm not that bad really....honest. Perhaps I should be more arrogant/confident about my looks but where's the fun in that?
Willow has yet to add her profile.
Looking for NSA fun, I love being told what to do and will always say yes. Sometimes I like to take control as well. Absolute gym nut, so relatively athletic. Love being looked after and complimented. Look forward to hearing from you x
hi im rosemary,just on here to have some fun. I must be honest and say i do like my men younger than myself between the ages of 35 to 50,also im not into hairy men,so if you dont cream or shave,dont message,not into someone who has more hair than me. im not into married men as it becomes complicated,but that dose depend on the circunstance. sorry to say if you have no pic there will be no reply although i am just 60,i do not act my age in any way shape or form,age is a number just to tell us how naughty we can be,and there is no way on this earth am i going to behave Music is my passion,i like to go to bars to see live bands,also fests and gigs so if you want to message me to find out anything else please do so i will try to answer all your questions as honestly as possible
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