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Chez, 25 from Nottingham, Nottinghamshire

I'm amazing. I'm sure you are too XD. Would love to talk to anyone in the area and maybe meet up have a laugh, exchange stories lol. Please don't contact me if you're over 35 years old as I need a cut off point, there's mine. Also I'm only interested in black men. So don't contact me if you're over 35 and/or non black. No offense intended. Looking forward to chatting with some of you :) Peace!

Louise, 43 from Aintree, Merseyside

Louise has yet to add her profile.

Liam, 38 from Boldon Colliery, Tyne And Wear

Come out a long heavy relationship just looking for abit flirt and laff maybe some hard core action lol

Ckmcr, 39 from Baguley, Greater Manchester

Hi I am a genuine fun loving guy with a good personality who is and gets lonely from time to time. I am nothing special but am not ugly and have not uploaded a picture as yet for different reasons. I work and live on my own but work to hard and long hours. I am seeking NSA, fun, passion and cosy nights in

Carol, 57 from Pendlebury, Greater Manchester

Hi, i'm 54 single, live with my 22 yr old son, trying to give up smoking, like a social drink, and like a laugh and lols of kisses and cuddles, anything else you want to know just ask I dont bite, good luck in your search xx

Mazz, 37 from Portsmouth, Hampshire

Who's up for fun

Beverley, 54 from Great Burdon, County Durham

I am fun horny kinky woman looking for kinky erotic man who is wild and exciting xl

Lorraine, 53 from Plymouth, Devon

I have a devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other... it's a battle sometimes.... but.. come and say hello..... I won't bite ....... I'm a fun, lively and vivacious kind of girl, looking for good times, lots of laughs with someone a little special.... Not into 'One night stands'. Never have been..... Not about to start now....... So here I am, do drop by and say hello..... flirt a little........and let the Fireworks begin......... Ps... Not much into winks if I'm honest, if you are interested and want to say hello then do so.....

Del, 47 from Southfields, London

Hi,I'm a real female,the photos are of me and are recent.I'm from Yorkshire originally,still have the accent and go back for visits now and then. I'm 47,look a bit younger have long red/blond hair and green eyes,I'm 5'2" and size 8/10 I'm straightforward,easy to get on with a quick sense of humour and I'm a bit of a night owl Be good to see someone quite regular but recently separated looking to meet new people for some fun,dates and hassle free company. You could let me know what kind of thing you are looking for,maybe chat and hopefully meet up but please don't be offended if I don't reply straight away or at all,I don't talk to loads of people at the same time and rarely to anyone without a face pic,I do supply mine to people I get talking to. I'd prefer to meet someone unattached but if you are not please at least have the decency to mention it straight away if it's not on your profile If you do happen to be tallish a bit younger than me and quite local feel free to point yourself out loudly but I'll read all messages I get as you never know who is going to make you tick. I'm a smoker and can't accommodate at present.

Maz, 37 from Fratton, Hampshire

I love .... FUN

Anna, 45 from York, North Yorkshire

what I currently desire remains undecided... will update when I have decided Anna x

Dave, 41 from Westhill, Grampian

Hi, I'm single but i'm not looking for anything serious, Just looking to have some NSA fun:)

Melissa, 31 from Laindon, Essex

Hi! Im a cuddly 30 year old from Essex :) I have a very high sex drive and am looking for a guy to give me a good seeing to ;) I love being eaten out, and im a gusher ;) I also love watching guys wank their big cocks for me. I love watching guys into toys and CBT I also would love to see videos of you fucking other girls from here ;) Send me a message with Video as the title and ill tell you how to get it to me ;) Im also very curious about being with a woman, with or without men involved. Need to find a local woman up for this ;)

Marie, 42 from Clapham Common, London

Hi Thanks for looking at my profile. Well i am looking for a partner who like me, likes to indulge in same sex adventures. I believe in loyalty and I am a faithful person. I'd like to be with someone who holds the same values and has the same kinky aspirations. I am sure you're out there, you're confident but not arrogant....rather smart but not cocky. Educated and with good manners, you can hold a conversation on subjects other than football and darts. We might not have the same hobbies or friends but i think that's also healthy....i accept we both need our own space, which makes time spent together even more valuable. So why don't you send me a message and we'll take it from there. PS: I am not interested in NSA fun or being friends with benefits...Only looking for LTR.

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