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Angela - 38, looking for discreet online chat and flirting

Im in college, and I want to be spoiled and pampered. Please do not ask for sex if it happens then that's fine

Kiera, 30 Westchase, Houston, TX

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I am a light-hearted man with a sense of humor; I enjoy companionship. In the quietness of space I can listen to your thoughts and the things that are important to my companion. As an adult I can tell you how much you appreciated with being "over the top". As a single man there are countless ways to show both caring and sincerity.
If /when/ I am with a companion, I am WITH that person no vain distractions or misplaced focus. Ed

Ed, 60 Cleveland, OH
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