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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.
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We've looked around at the other adult relationship sites and quite honestly, we weren't impressed. Firstly we take your privacy seriously. We know you're just looking for fun and excitement but you might not want everyone to know you're on our site. All our members are required to login and your profile won't show up on a bunch of random websites. We can't offer a completely free service because we pay full time members of staff to monitor the site to ensure all the profiles are real and no one is trying to scam you. Membership fees go towards making the service better for everyone.
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Just wanting to be more spontaneous... Do things I usually wouldn't and live for the moment.
I am up for most things and i have good sense of humor. I must say i do enjoy good company, good food and a good laugh. Looking for a bit of discrete un-rush relationship. I enjoy prolong passionate sloppy kissing and caressing. Age,color and shape are not an issue for me as long as you have a heart all is good with me.Believe you've heard once you go black you never go back AND the darker the berry the sweeter it tastes,i leave all of that to your imagination.
IAM NOT LOOKING FOR A NSA, FUCKBUDDY,ONE NIGHT STAND OR ANYTHING ALONG THOSE LINES. So if you won't any of the above please don't message me. Full time student. Looking for a good looking man or women I am a bit curvy so you need to be ok with that. I am over meaningless sex I wont the cuddles and kisses during and after. If this sounds like what you won't I look forward to hearing from you.
I am a 61 year old female, happily married baby-boomer, fitness-oriented, enjoy traveling & family activities. Enjoy motor homing, bush walking, jogging and travel. My husband and I have both worked as professionals but are retired. Not involved at all in the swinging scene. Married young and had very few "naughty" experiences before then. Now that the kids are gone, and, with some encouragement from my husband, only fairly recently gained the confidence to explore!!! Quite interested in bi-experiences, hence, am looking for a single lady or couple (with a bi female) who are interested in having a bit of adult fun!!! May (rarely) meet a single male but only if (1) he is endowed better than average, (2) he can give me a good massage, and (3) he can hold an intelligent conversation!! As I receive quite a lot of messages from single men please do not feel offended if I do not reply, thanks for the interest, I feel flatered that you are interested even at my age!!! My husband will always accompany me and will participate, if required, but I will remain the main focus. At the risk of offending, we prefer people that have kept active and have kept their weight reasonably under control. Ideally, we would meet for a couple of hours in a nice hotel, have a glass (or two) of nice red wine, some food/nibbles, then a massage, and perhaps more!!! Please do not ask for a "face" photo or a phone number, we are much too private. We will only communicate via this site. We are genuine and if we agree to meet at a particular location we will do so. Not interested in socialising, chatting, or meeting for a coffee !!! Safe sex is important as is hygiene (a shower and...
Hey there, im Leanne I live in Albany wa,Hey there, my smile is contagious and so is my energy, im not desperate or lonely, just adventurous enough to date online,I'm a Laid back girl who enjoys spending time with friends and meeting new people ,My friends describe me as: warm, generous, thoughtful and caring and spontaneous ,i find there are too many people who take life seriously and dont make time to enjoy,down to earth attitude and I like to get the most out of life, Im definitely looking for someone who is in love with life and open to exploring all its possibilities. Online dating has been quite the adventure, I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same ,. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own ,I am independent but far from being a feminist. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life, and are generally happy, God its like a job interview I know it's hard to get to know someone by just a few photos and a couple of paragraphs, would like something casual. movies, beaches, fishing, camping,four wheel driving, good friends, so if you want to get to know me better you should message me and thanks for stopping by, cheers xxxx
Looking for lady friends for no strings attached friendship and fun . Life is short lets make the most of it , discretion assured day time week days are good for outings lunch, movie, beach or bush love the outdoors etc .I am not a weirdo just a normal bloke looking to meet new friends. I am stocky and solid but carrying a little extra on the tummy lol hard worker , wicked and kinky with a great sense of humor. You the lady need to be down to earth with a good sense of humor and open minded, clean and sober but a bit wicked and kinky please mmm and not obese sorry. Married ladies are welcome , it can be our little secret lol. We can meet for a drink or coffee get to know one another at first ezz into the juicy bit so to speak mmm.Thanks for checking me out hope you find a freind too.
I'm a out going person who loves sex3 a lot
Hi ladies I'm a regular guy who loves to lick pussy amongst other things love to chat drop me an email
Im curvy with GG breasts and I'm looking for someone who wants to take control and guide me to try new things... Have been pushing my limits lately and I'm loving it but haven't found the right person yet who can take me further. Contact me with a pic so I can see if you might be for me...
40yr old lady wanting DP threesome. One on one fine too. I am clean, discrete, shaved, nice 14C boobs, plump but not fat, I prefer CUT men. I LOVE chest hair, but wont hold it against you if you don't have any!!! :) Sometimes I like is soft and gentle, other times rough and hard. I am NOT into photo swapping or texting back and forth all day. I WILL request a face picture of you and I will email one to you.
Don't usually have much free time there days. But I am hoping to find someone to have some fun with when I get some free time and see where it goes from there, if its just a bit of fun that's ok but if I am lucky enough to find someone I have a connection with than maybe if we both feel the same we could maybe have a relationship, but have to see how things go first. I am looking to find a guy between 28-45, slim to average build, gsoh (must be as able to have a laugh), can last the distance. My kids come first about 97% of the time the other 3% is my time. I know it doesn't sound like much bit they are my everything, I have raised them by myself since they were little is basically been just me n my kids, but now I feel I need to do something for myself. If you want to know anything drop of a line and ask away. NO PIC NO REPLY
Looking for a honest fb hopefully sumthing more Enjoy sex at least 5 nights a week.. Not in to married men.. They must be single.. aged men between 35 &48 no older or younger..an honesty is a must. And no one that message bullshit game playing. And wont me for me not how i suck or fuck
Got two kids , but I'm lacking a little on the side from time to time , you know what I mean !
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