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DAVE, 37 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hi there I like to play and party - up for anything really - I hope you are too :) I am on here to meet some hot chicks and hook up love having sex in new places with new people - there's always a bit of excitement when someone might catch you :) I am also well hung and love to fuck All the best - look forward to your messages :)

JUDY, 53 from Christchurch, South

I'm married but husband doesn't do foreplay with me boring

MICKEY, 38 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Mickey has yet to add his profile. Ask Mickey for more info.

KAY, 55 from Whakatane, Bay Of Plenty

I would say the best part of my body is my brain, then the rest of me.......actually for me to know and you to find out.

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