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STEVE, 55 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

Steve winked at you (10th Apr at 10:12am)

PETER, 67 from Mangere, Auckland

Peter winked at you (Wednesday at 1:14am)

JACK, 44 from Matamata, Waikato

Hi, nice and gentle guy, looking for nice lady :)

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Not looking for a partner, just some NSA bit on the side . Are you my bit on the side

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