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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across NZ looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, all we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion.

If you've seen any other adult dating site you'll know that some can be a bit of a sausage fest. As tempting as that may sound to some of you we can tell you it really does get too overwhelming. To keep our mix of members even we regularly run special offers to attract a certain type of member. At the moment we are offing 100% FREE full membership for women. If you're a woman and sign up to the trial you'll get a full membership straight away. Our offers will change so don't feel too hard done by if you don't qualify this time. Sign up for a free trail and we'll let you know when we run our next special offer. There's no time limit on the trail membership.

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ANTHONY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Older guy who is looking to share some exciting experiences I just love spanking and ideally am looking for a female spanking partner, someone to share this experience - let's meet have a coffee and see where the conversation leads other things considered bondage or similar BDSM activities

BILL, 62 from Wellington, Wellington

Looking for soulmate

JP, 26 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Jp has yet to add his profile. Ask Jp for more info.

ALAN, 61 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Alan sent you a message: "Hi" (19th Jan at 1:57am) Alan winked at you (19th Jan at 1:54am) Alan sent you a message: "Hi" (6th Jan at 1:23am) Alan sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (4th Jan at 1:15am)

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