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Truly-Sweet, 28 from Valhalla, Gauteng

I'm just a lonely bored woman who needs to be entertained throughly, completely. Stimulate my mind with your intellect and will surely stimulate other parts of me.

John, 43 from Sandton, Gauteng

John winked at you (29th Mar at 2:45am)

Phindie, 37 from Valhalla, Gauteng

Hook up with me, matured, open mimded and funny..you'll love every moment. Must be NSA and very discreet. Love to explore anything possible.

Plaaspoppie, 34 from Valhalla, Gauteng

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