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Lerato, 35 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

I'm transgender in simple terms I do not have a Virginia, I am Gay. So if your open minded and spontaneous then please step to the front. I'm tired of yalls tired dicks irritating me.

Qhawekazi, 22 from Pietermaritzburg, Kwazulu-Natal

Qhawekazi has yet to add her profile.

Richard, 50 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Is hier om dinge te geniet en om stout te wees en die lewe te geniet ek hou baie van warm sex met warm vrou wat dit ook geniet, en 3 somes mww(-)

Zee, 28 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Seeking for one long term sex partner, anyone interest, let's chart then will take it from there.....

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