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Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Kevin, 38 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a strong, clean, confident and sexy gentleman with a face to match my body. I can be rough, if that's what you like. If you like being treated like a lady, then I'm your man. I can definitely spoil you by treating you like a queen as I am courteous, kind and caring but on the other hand passionate and a little bit of a freak, OVERALL very well balanced. Looking for daytime fun with a female of similar characteristics. If I don't get back too you soon, I will definitely do so in the near future,...

Tinks, 53 from Durbanville, Western Cape

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

Jacky, 34 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm single African,independent hard working and fun.i enjoy reading and meeting people.I think I'm fun to be around ,wouldn't mind trying new things ,never shy to say No. I like gentlemen, respectful preferably professional, mature somebody. I am not after anybody s cash gentleman. This is me trying to own my pleasure. I'm here for fun.if you happen to do one or two things for me it's entirely your choice.

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