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Helen, 31 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

I'm 31 years old. I love having fun. I'm a little chubby not FAT. I love nature fun times and hanging out.

Morne, 42 from Ceres, Western Cape

Morne has yet to add his profile. Ask Morne for more info.

Thulile, 22 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am sexy, fun and i have a beautiful personality

Ignatia, 38 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Biggish, always horny - but please do not send me winks...

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