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Lexi, 33 from Moreletapark, Gauteng

Fun loving, enjoy gyming, and am in IT

Karen, 49 from Messina, Limpopo

white female with a neglected pussy seeking attention from males and females to satisfy her i do not chat on whatts up. if you have guts to send me a wink, then you will have the guts to send me a message. winks will be deleted immediately. i am not a prostitute, so pse do not treat me as one. i am on this site for the same reason as you, and read my profile before you send any messages

Casper, 56 from Vryburg, North West

Love to play with my tongue all over, oral, and doggy style, looking for NSA encounters

Zinhle, 30 from Vryheid, KwaZulu-Natal

I'm honest, shy, respective, humble I hav lov dat I don't get in return

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