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Nonozie, 28 from Kwazulu Natal

Im a black gal likes going out, receiving and giving oral looking 4 a sugar daddy like relationship

Riaan, 33 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Looking for no strings attached straight or bisexual girl for delightful sexual pleasure.

Vicky, 35 from Kwazulu Natal

Here for fun:) I'm fuller figured with lots of energy and passion. I love to spend time with someone pleasuring each other in whatever way we need. I can travel but not accommodate at all. Maybe a quicky in the office? Or hours in a secret bed somewhere? I have the time if you have the stadium... I'm not interested in cyber porn or skype. I want touching and feeling and actual sex. Kissing, licking etc. So unless you live nearby, no point in contacting me please:) Happy hunting everyone. X

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We are a fun loving couple looking for discreat encounters and long relationships.

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