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Joanne, 52 from Kwazulu Natal

I once had sex in my friends lounge, no doors..................... I would like to meet fun friends online that doesn't want strings attached. Chat only. No calls. No meetings yet. Yes im not single, but I do like to have sex, but "oupa" don't! I would like to get naughty online, and would like to talk to someone who cant see my face, and give him a dream of a blowjob!! The prize? If he tells me he had to go and clean up after he had a awesome orgasm!

Nicky, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

White young men only for NSA I am a high maintenance kind of lady. If your profile is fake do not message me I have no time for childish games.

Roger, 45 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Hi I'm very easy going open minded.looking for nawty fun game for anything. Pls just leave your number or email details for us to meet up lol

Audry, 42 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

WHITE Only.....MMF or FFM. Love it. CFNM, great, tease men, watch them in the heat of passion, playing with themself... Great. Hubby always to watch, but always love him to join. Any woman that whants a permanent lady friend, with occasional man to assist, this is the place to be. No complications or jealousy.

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