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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange naughty thoughts. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.

If you have made it this far, you are probably interested in meeting adult contacts in Kwazulu Natal or maybe further afield. Don't be shy, sign up for a free trial account and take a look around.

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There is more to My Bed or Yours than just meeting people for sex. Maybe you are feeling horny and want to flirt with someone online for a bit or possibly you are in a committed relationship but you enjoy reading other peoples sex diaries or checking out their photos.

Just looking is fine. No one should feel pressured into anything they don't want to do. While the majority of our members are here looking for casual sex, regular fuck buddies or swingers in Kwazulu Natal, lots of other members just enjoy the thrill of looking at other members photos and videos, reading their diaries and maybe getting involved in some harmless flirting without actually meeting for sex or cheating on a partner.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Even if you are not ready for a full blown affair or watching you partner having sex with another person, there is still a lot of fun to be had on My Bed or Yours. Why not start by some harmless flirting either with another person or a couple who are already enjoying the benefits of an open relationship. Take your time and if you feel it's right for you, find a couple you feel comfortable with to share your first swinging experience with. If you don't feel swinging is for you, you can still have fun viewing other members photos, videos and diaries and chatting to other horny members.

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Couple, 32 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

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Anthony, 42 from Kwazulu Natal

Hi I'm just a down to earth guy looking for some great fun ..yes I know this is a fucking site but I would like to get that one woman who will knock me of my feet Who will take time out to sit with me next to the beach and fishing have fun times in the bedroom and how can take charge of a situation I'm staying in the northern areas of booysens park in PE and works as a Forencics Investigation for the Road Accident Fund I'll be going to cape town tomorrow night

Lesego, 40 from Gauteng, Gauteng

Here for fun and NSA. I'm shy but down to earth lady. Let's chat and take it from there

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