What is adult dating?

Adult or casual dating is just like regular dating except you don't get past the excitement of the first date. The thrill of seeing them dressed up for the first time, touching them for the first time, getting them into bed for the first time. Adult dating is for people who are looking to meet a variety of people, flirt, have fun, but don't want to get caught up in a long term relationship. Most of our members end up with a select group of friends and contacts who they know they can message when they want.

Casual dating offers a range of positives for individuals seeking a more relaxed approach to romance and companionship.

Freedom and Independence Casual dating allows you to maintain independence and freedom. You can enjoy the company of others without feeling tied down or obligated to commit to a serious relationship.

Exploration and Discovery Casual dating provides an opportunity for exploration and self-discovery. You can meet new people, try new activities, and learn more about yourself and others' preferences without the pressure of long-term commitment.

Low Pressure and Stress Unlike serious relationships, adult dating is typically low-pressure and stress-free. There's no need to worry about meeting societal expectations or planning for the future, allowing your both to simply enjoy the present moment.

Variety and Diversity Casual dating allows you to meet and connect with a diverse range of people. You can broaden horizons, expose yourself to different perspectives and lifestyles, and foster personal growth.

Flexibility and Spontaneity Casual dating offers flexibility. There are no strict rules or obligations, allowing you to be more spontaneous and adventurous when exploring your adult dating experiences.

Emotional Support and Companionship Even in casual relationships, there can be emotional support and companionship. Having someone to share experiences with and confide in can provide comfort and fulfillment without the need for a serious commitment.

Learning and Growth Casual dating can be a valuable learning experience. It allows you to gain insights into yourself and others - their needs, and their boundaries, which can contribute to personal growth and development.

Adult dating can be a positive and enriching experience for those who are open to it. It offers freedom, excitement, and the opportunity to connect with others on a more casual and relaxed level.

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

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Who can I meet?

Our members span a whole range of people: busy professional men and women who put their career first but still have sexual needs, couples who like to experiment, people just looking for some new excitement. Whatever your reason or urge we can find someone for you. Our discreet service keeps you safe but your fantasies run wild.

We all have our secret fantasies. We help you live them out. With genuine members we're sure you're not the only one with those naughty thoughts. With full time staff monitoring the site you can rest assured that you'll only be shown genuine members.

Why should I join?

My Bed or Yours is dedicated to casual relationships. When you're a member with us you don't need to worry about people getting clingy or asking where things are going. Everyone's just looking for a good time. No strings.

We take the privacy of our members very seriously. That's why we ask everyone to sign up even if you just want a trial. We need to protect members profiles from becoming public. We have full time members of staff who make sure nuisance members are kept off the site and blocked.

Trial accounts don't require a credit card and activation is very quick. Once a member you can start to view profiles and get a feel for what have have to offer behind closed doors.

We have a lively and extensive community of members across the country. You can explore some of our main regions by clicking below. To see all of our members and add your own profile, use the free sign up ☝️ . Members get access to extensive search, messaging, chat and community pages and much more.

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