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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange their most intimate thoughts and desires. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.
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It's a crowded market out there, and that's just dating sites. Once you factor in online personals pages on local news sites or mobile hookup apps it gets hard to know what you're getting into. It sometimes seems like everyone and their dog is setting up another quick dating service. We've been around long enough to see people come and go, which should be enough to reassure you that we might just know a few tricks of the trade by now.
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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.
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(My full name's Alexa in case you're wondering!) I think of myself as pretty good fun, as you can see I'm no fitness freak (like to drink and party with friend a little too much) but my curves are in all the right places. Looking for a little fun after spending too long tormenting myself with relationships and "regular" dating. I like it outdoors (I know, it says that in the 'example' profile but honestly I do). Would prefer not to get caught though, so outdoors but discreet. To be honest I like it anywhere 'different'. Um, what else. I guess guys usually like the fact I enjoy sucking and don't mind a bit of "decoration" :) As for who I'm looking for. You need to be a good laugh (weird I know, but it's not unusual for me to like some banter and giggles during sex, why does it always have to be so serious). I'm not so shallow when it comes to physique, but a little bit shallow between the legs - have to admit I prefer them a little bit bigger than average; just feels better for me. [****Some additional info below now I have been on here for a day and had some experience] If you are old enough to be my dad, sorry but no. My dad would not approve for one. Just because I am natural downstairs does not mean I want a man to "shave me" - if I wanted to be hairless downstairs I am perfectly capable of doing it myself. I don't so you'll have to live with it. If I don't get back to you, doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you. Lastly, I definitely need to mention this based on my first day on here. I am on...
i am a honest man i repect woman i like to watching porn at home i am looking for friendship and fun.i am divorced i have two kid grown up and 5 garnkid i like music new and old life is better shared.
hi im single and looking to make friends with similar females amd maybe meet up for a drink or two nsa fun x
Willow has yet to add her profile.
Im fun loving bubbly, like to have 1 night stands and three some. I rather be fucked my black men love big huge cocks
David sent you a message: "I'd really like to know more a..." (yesterday at 2:16am)
Voluptuous not a size 0
single bored mom seeking chats n giggles dont want to meet anyone. well maybe a police officer lol possibly fire fighter lol
I am a plus size girl, size 22,my size doesn't really stop me from doing anything. I enjoy both going out and staying in, just depends who I'm with. I enjoy been treated respectfully and made to feel like I'm precious, not asking for much really. I am a good listener and like to help and support others around me. I am hopefully looking for a long term relationship depending how things go. I am not a girl who sleeps with people the first time I meet them, so if that's what your after look elsewhere.
Hi I'm 47 looking to have chats possible discreet meets can accommodate would also be interested in any bi curious female
I haven't put up a picture but happy to send one. I'm blonde, blue eyed, 5'6", average build / slightly curvy. I'm not looking for a relationship. I work hard play hard. I'm looking for a friend with benefits ! Discreet fun wanted ! I'm not looking for a toy boy - nor an older man. I like a nice body, muscular, a sense of humour I'm a sucker for a hard back massage ! I'm not looking to bed hop or a three some: I would like a genuine guy for a discreet relationship. Maybe the impossible is possible !
Interested in occasional meets for no strings sexy fun with another partner. Not into rough play just good sensous, sexy fun! Maybe the odd evening away could be on the agenda sometime should I meet the right person. A threesome with my hubby would be fun as would swinging if you have a willing partner.
Hey there... Not interested in"online fun"!!! Im 5'9" and a curvy size 18. NON SMOKING. If you aren't totally single I'm not interested Looking for good old fashioned proper sexy relationship x!x Someone to push boundaries with ;-) Age range of 47-57....
PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MARRIED. Me... Independent, laid back, fiesty, sense of humour, active, honest Looking for... Non complicated fun with one person on a regular basis. Fun can comprise of eating, drinking, observing (films or dvds - not other couples!!) as well as more 'physical' activities!! You... Strong personality (to match mine), funny, active, honest, nice eyes and smile and of reasonable intelligence Looking for... The same as me Please say hello or send me a wink if the above sounds like you....
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