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Laura, 25 from Scalby, Humberside

Looking for meets, I'm a big girl.. past curvy! so if you're into skinny etc I'm not what you want! Prefer men in there 30's, 40's no older that 49!!

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We are looking for some extra fun with someone that can join me and my hubby... Don't mind if male or female... Both every open minded... I DO NOT FUCK ON MY OWN!!!! Please don't get shitty or rude if I don't reply in your time frame... as u can image we get hundreds of messages I will get round to answering

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