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Margaret, 54 from Dudley, West Midlands

happy and bubbly blonde. I get on with everyone. Kind. Caring. Honest. Will do anything for anyone. What am I looking for? Hmmm haven't a clue.

Lou, 40 from Archway, London

I'm a happily single lady looking for some uncomplicated fun. I've got a busy social and family life but miss male company and intimacy .

Al, 38 from Worcester Park, London

After some hot times, ideally fun outside the bedroom too. Believe mutual satisfaction is essential and enjoy pleasuring as much as receiving. Guess I'm after someone with similar values!

Miriam, 42 from Sale, Greater Manchester

Back again... well I know what I want. Good sex, often... bigger lady, German, 42, love kissing, oral, massages, good sex... no pain, no men in any kind of relationship.... too much trouble, no couples, guys over 50 or under 35... don't want to fuck my Dad or someone too young.. x Can't be bothered with guys being rude and calling me names or too far away. Liars and cheats no chance either. No point here x Please write something more than hi or hey there or wanna fuck? Just rude and tasteless... x If you want to get...

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