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Nieco, 35 from Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire

Easy going...fun loving person looking for a specific type of man who is interested in having a safe nsa sexual arrangment (regular) without drama. No lovey dovey crap, just nsa sex, I do not want a relationship - so married guys are welcome, as long a you take care of ur side of things and no crap comes my way. I am direct, professional, career orientated, a workaholic, im attractive, single (never married), size 8, black hair, brown eyes, good body, confidant and have a very high sex drive. Absolutally NO anal and NO pain! I like men between...

Sen, 35 from Cardiff, South Glamorgan

Irish guy looking for fun in the bay. 35 naughty.

Zara, 39 from Ascot, London

I'm a bit of a naughty girl, love dressing up. Love male attention. But I'm also interested in women

Kate, 28 from Clerkenwell, London

New-ish to this sort of website and not o sure what to expect. I am sexually inexperienced and looking to change that with the right person

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