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Paula, 50 from Maghull, Merseyside

kind and loving person. A typical lady likes wine and dine and being treated right a lot to ask for some it seems on here, but my preference. Nice to be able to get along and converse. hobbies gym , horticulture and eating out.

Corinne, 53 from Birmingham, West Midlands

53 years old. 10 stone lighter than I used to be. Quite submissive. Cards on the table - I'm a pre-op transsexual. Still have very small "bits" but a very accommodating mouth and ass. I have a very broad taste in men and am looking for hot, rough meets.

Alex, 20 from Penwortham, Lancashire

Just looking for some good sex.

Scarlett, 40 from Headington, Oxfordshire

Hi, Please read carefully to avoid wasting my time and yours. If your age is not between 34-43 my filters kick in you will not get a response. I dont suffer fools so be warned.....I can be quite blunt if I say I am not interested I am NOT interested. If you are happily or unhappily married, or have a girlfriend or are bisexual DO NOT get in touch I am NOT INTERESTED. Also no interest in CD's . If I want to share more pictures with you I will on my terms NOT YOURS. I have a good...

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