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Paula, 60 from Barbican, London

I will not acknowledge winks And or reply to crude vulgar messages Depending on your ethnic background will depend if I choose to chat You will be deleted and block Your choice my decision

Gerrad, 34 from Barbican, London

I'm guessing that many will have a look at my picture and then decide to communicate with me or not, using whatever methodology. Given that, I am skeptical of what to write since the merits of writing is in question. The dynamics of interaction is unpredictable,so, I can't be too specific with what I want or the duration. However, someone who is adventurous, like to explore and a woman who is willing to be uninhibited when with me as I will with her. That is a hallmark for a wonderful time together. I am down to earth, straightforward and...

N, 44 from Warley, West Midlands

MILF: tick. horny divorcee: tick. Love sex: tick. Tall: tick. Men must be 6ft and above. Open minded and very touchy feely. Also interested in meeting a gentle woman to pleasure and explore, and be pleasured by. FIY: Winks, or Favourites, without a message, go straight to trash. So do empty profiles.

Larie, 40 from Norwich, Norfolk

HI'm single into dating tall around 6ft and i prefer CUT I've a brain, independent and a career Mummy seeking willing manchild to please, tease and grant all my desires

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