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Mark, 48 from Leeming Bar, North Yorkshire

Looking for someone local for fun days out nights in looking for some good company.Love going to the coast and the lakes weekends away.Be nice to find someone local for regular fun.NSA with a hot lady.

Shell, 39 from Colchester, Essex

So going to be free Sunday for an hour or two who fancies picking me up and taking me to lunch?

Sarah, 45 from Grantham, Lincolnshire

Why does everyone ask - what are you looking for?? Standard - it changes on a daily basis!! Sometimes it's love, sometimes it's kisses, sometimes it's ..... life is a lottery - so you've got to be in it to win so take a chance and see what the prize might be x

Melly, 21 from Westbourne, Dorset

Hello, I think i'm pretty submissive and am interested in exploring this side to me whilst getting to know someone kind. I'm currently in 2nd year at university and love the arts, also a netflixaholic and very much enjoy going out. I don't want a one night stand so please don't message me asking for a quickie but do message me if you would like to chat and potentially meet up/ see what happens :) P.S... I'm not into older guys who are over 35, sorry.

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