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My Bed or Yours is a discreet, easy to use adult contacts site for open minded adults to meet other adults for some naughty fun, a bit on the side or a regular fuck buddy. If you are looking for a good time without the commitment or dramas that come with a serious relationship, My Bed or Yours is your new best friend. Search online for new sex partners in Barking & Dagenham or slip it in your pocket with our latest mobile app and find casual sex wherever you are.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
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Caroline, 52 from Barking & Dagenham, London

Funny caring luving easy to get on with my wit and charm says it all luv young sexy men ,will write more later lol xx l live in the middle of Worcester not where this site says lol want to hook up with a regular partner and see where it goes xx

Donna, 34 from Oulton, West Yorkshire

Im married and not getting what I want at home tall and have big boobs also play women's rugby league enjoys a drink loves to meet new people and socialise looking for NSA fun or friends with benefits

Anna, 30 from Seacombe, Merseyside

I want some one to join us

Aynaa, 27 from Foleshill, West Midlands

it's just hard for me to tell you about myself. But I'm a very good listener. Enlighten me please.

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