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Jon, 45 from Tinshill, West Yorkshire

Looking for regular day time funded to working nights

Louise, 43 from Steyning, West Sussex

Quality over quantity, someone with morals and standards. I'm not looking for one night stands, or late night hook ups, but a bit of excitement with someone that's highly charged on a regular basis would suit me well, as I'm a passionate women that loves the intensity that can be created when the chemistry is right. Good connection, good conversation, and someone that's on the same wavelength. I enjoy fun nights out and intimate nights in. I'm looking for someone fairly local so that spontinaety is possible, it's good to be able to act on impulse x

Brattyslut, 25 from Bramhall, Greater Manchester

I am looking for a dominant. Someone who will tie me up and make me cum repeatedly for them, even when I cannot take it any more. I love BDSM and I am desperate for a strong, handsome male to take absolute control of my body and my mind. Treat me like a princess, fuck me like a porn star! A lot of men on here seem to think they are a dominant because they like to have control in the bedroom. A dominant is not someone who can fuck hard whilst pulling hair and occasionally spanking my ass....

Beth, 48 from Bristol, Avon

looking for friends with benefits regular F-Buddy PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU DO NOT LIVE IN OR NEAR BRISTOL!

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