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David, 64 from Stevenage, Hertfordshire

Divorced male looking for friendship and fun

Perri, 55 from Barkingside, London

bubbly,cheeky, passionate,sensual.....naughty! Would prefer if you are local to me.....x

Francis, 27 from Doncaster, South Yorkshire

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Courtney, 23 from Intake, South Yorkshire

Not married but long term partners with my boyfriend who loves seeing me with guys would like someone to fool around with and record I'm light petite with a thick bubble butt and personally would like to try anal can accommodate and loves name calling and verbal abuse in sex

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