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Nemesis, 34 from Barnes, London

No matter what you may have heard, size matters. Problem with nudes? Old folks say...you should know better than to buy a pig in a poke... Cock pictures required! You only get one chance to make a first impression! NO gym -mirror selfies / fitness maniacs allowed- NO WAY... ABS -workout- muscle -fitness-type....no thanks, not my cup of tea... - Tell your boyfriend , if he says he's got beef... That I'm a vegetarian and I'm f***ing scared of him.... NO PICTURES =IGNORED ...and... I don't care what other ladies say to that... I'm NOT into dogging, BDSM, Watersports...

Cory, 21 from Tonyrefail, Mid Glamorgan

Hear for one night stands Married or not Bit of fun Age don't matter

Abbie, 40 from Thames Ditton, Surrey

ok little bit about what im looking for ,looking for someone who i can have some fun with,if the right person comes along possibly long term relationship,not into one night stands also prfer taller guys but would consider just under 6 ft .Anyway enough info for now .SO hope to hear from you soon

Sparkle, 24 from Barnes, London

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