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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

  • Professional singles who don't have time for a serious relationship
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We pride ourselves on building a thriving adult community. New members serious about looking for fuck buddies and online fun. Being a dedicated adult social network means women are more open to sending men sexual messages and being the first to make contact. We are always monitoring our membership levels to make sure everyone is catered for and can find excitement.

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James, 40 from Oswestry, Shropshire

Steady, reliable and discreet. I am here looking for looking for NSA. Want to know any more just ask. I bite only by request :)

Helen, 47 from South Cerney, Gloucestershire

Just like tall handsome Military men as I love a uniform , who dosent but then a fit man in a suit is nice too .... Keep myself nice , get lots of nice compliments , I'm not incredibly tall I'm afraid but I have a nice body I think. Love oral sex and lots of kissing , good sense of humour. Like to keep my private life private . Love pretty underwear , nice perfume , my dogs, my house , clothes and and shoes and boots ( about 70 pairs ) ... like oral sex and lots...

Hotlipz, 44 from Rushton, Northamptonshire

Sexy professional passionate milk chocolate girl. Looking for fun and friendship with a sexy strong white guy only. I'm very independent , just looking for hot great fun safe NSA sex. I'm not looking to fall in love, but neither am I looking for lots of one night stands. Right now I'm looking for some passion fun with one regular person. So if your looking for something wonderfully discrete sensual - Message me :0). No picture = no reply.

Veronica, 21 from Barnsbury, London

I like smoking weed, love being dominated. am open to any kind of fantasy/role play

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