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S, 54 from Paignton, Devon

Well, having been on here for a few months now, I thought I should update my profile. I've found that I prefer guys who are younger than me BUT if I fancy you, then age is irrelevant. I'm looking for NSA fun but would really enjoy getting to know you because friends make better lovers. If we were to click the I could be open to perusing a relationship but that's not at the forefront of my mind atm. I'd love to be taken out to dinner/ lunch or for a few drinks and treated like a lady. I...

Elizabeth, 64 from Carew, Dyfed

Hello......the only thing I ask please....is if your married or in a relationship I'm.. Not your girl....thank you....x

Laura, 44 from Biggleswade, Bedfordshire

Hello all I am a woman who has been single for much too long (my decision), and would love to meet a friendly, kind and warm man for, well, who knows until we meet. Not really into endless emails. I want to be worshipped and adored!!! Anyway come and say hello and we can take it from there. I am a very curvy natural woman, soft and pale of skin, certainly not for you if you are looking for perfection.(At least 6 months at a gym would be required first). I need to feel a connection with someone, and...

Jonny, 35 from Eccleston, Merseyside

Hiya! Thanks for having a peek. :) A little about me. I think it's hard to try and describe yourself without coming across as some sort of cliche arsehole. Well, here's my best/most honest attempt... I'm single, reasonably well endowed with a big appetite for sex. I'm looking for fun in all it's many forms, perhaps something regular with the right person/couple. I guess I'm reliable (I'm always 5mins late), courteous (the art of yawning with your mouth shut) with a positive outlook (less hair on my head only means more face to wash). I've not got a photo...

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