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Bawpaw, 29 from Knaphill, Surrey

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Danny, 29 from Basildon, London

hey all, looking to meet real and genuine people, women, couples pretty much anything goes, age and distance not a problem. looking for pic swaps, whatsapp but mainly looking for real meets, one off or regular - we only have one life so lets have fun. find all forms of sex a turn on, risky out door meets, public changing rooms. the car and obviously the bedroom. have a high sex drive and im a heavy cummer also looking for lasting friendships and willing to be exclusive for the right person. will reply to all messages, i wont waste...

Rose, 50 from Basildon, London

Hi, before hand, I would like the say thanks for reading my profile..and more importantly..I can not respond to the messages... due family personal committment problems... Asian, very shy and I have been told many times I am a funny but anyway here to meet people... :-/ What I am looking for is a casual meet up, a meal and I don't drink alcohol, love a nice time out. Would like someone who knows how to treat a lady. And to be honest I like calling the shots and I like to be in control. :) and just want...

Lucy, 49 from Basildon, London

Hi am in a sex less relationship am looking for a one night no strings my friend told me about this site so thought id pluck the courage up and give it a go must be discreet

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