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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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It's a crowded market out there, and that's just dating sites. Once you factor in online personals pages on local news sites or mobile hookup apps it gets hard to know what you're getting into. It sometimes seems like everyone and their dog is setting up another quick dating service. We've been around long enough to see people come and go, which should be enough to reassure you that we might just know a few tricks of the trade by now.

Where most of our competitors fail is in trying to trick their members with fake profiles, or not taking enough care of their customers' security and privacy. They usually then skimp on the whole concept of customer service, making a toxic mix that drives them straight back out of business. That's not how we do things.

We don't make sample profiles. Instead, every single person registered on My Bed or Yours is a real person, just like you. They've come here with the same agenda as you: to have fun. They might be just wanting to flirt at first, but everyone here is looking for someone to meet up with, or spend time online with. When everyone's here for the same reason, there's no stopping the party.

We're here to keep the party going, and that means being serious about your security and privacy so that you can concentrate on having a good time. Our support teams are available all week, if you're not happy we can help out.

We don't want to sound like your dad but we do want you to feel safe while using our service. We try our best to make sure all of our members are just looking for fun and not out to cause trouble. We have a full time staff team that constantly monitors the site to remove troublesome members - if you find anyone suspicious please let us know. Before you arrange to meet someone talk to them first on the site. We provide messaging tools so you can connect with people without revealing any personal details. If you get on, arrange a phone call or Skype chat and take it from there. Keep your personal details private until you feel you can trust someone.

Membership numbers only tell half the story. Maybe you have tried other sex dating websites who promise more members than anyone else only to find out most of their members are men or located all over the world. If you are a guy looking for sex in Beaconsfield, try a personals site that actually has a great selection of BOTH men and women all over the country including many in Beaconsfield. Registration is free, and you will get instant access once you complete the quick sign up form. Free registration is no-obligation so if for any reason you feel www.mybedoryours.com is not for you, that's no problem but once you experience the world of online adult personals done the right way we are sure you will be hooked like so many of our existing members.

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Sara, 46 from Norwich, Norfolk

I am a BBW with lots of curves, and wobbly bits, :) am friendly, sexy genuine and honest. Looking for nsa meets. I always love flirting, meeting new people, fun and sex. Am not into relationships at the moment, with living with disabled mum, and being her full time carer, things don't seem to work well when I have tried relationships. So am happy being single for now. I just want to meet some nice people, make new friends, and have some fun. Am interested in meeting some nice guys who want some no strings fun, maybe business men...

Tomasz, 33 from Hull, Humberside

Hi, I am looking for fun sex and escape from the gray reality

Helen, 47 from Beaconsfield, London

I am friendly and fun and would like to meet sexy males for sex and more.

Sarah, 53 from Blackburn, Lancashire

I am a slim and may I say attractive female. On here because my husband's ongoing fantasy is to watch me having sex with other attractive men... Well, I'm game...! This may seem snobbish! But we are an articulate, intelligent and well dressed couple and expect the same from any prospective candidates. Though please note we are a mature couple. So no youngsters please. Our ideal type would be a clean, good looking professional man with a good body and endowment. I do like to dress up and have plenty of naughty outfits... Latex, Lingerie etc. Any play will...

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