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Robert, 29 from Seaham, County Durham

I believe my self to a nice guy. I'm looking for a woman who up for some adult fun I'm not bothered about age or figure. I'm open minded so I don't mind trying new thins so if you like give me a wink?

Laura, 25 from Scalby, Humberside

Looking for meets, I'm a big girl.. past curvy! so if you're into skinny etc I'm not what you want! Prefer men in there 30's, 40's no older that 49!!

Kayla, 37 from Northfield, West Midlands

I'm here to have fun with a select few. I like it hard and wet, I like it slow and sensual. PRINCIPLES : I have no interest in married men , not here to be dominated nor disrespected , and with all due respect my asshole is an exit point and not a cock entrance. Lastly, personal details like my phone number and home address are not at my disposal to share . If you have trouble with articulation and can only communicate with symbols and or monosyllables , kindly refrain from contacting me. DESIRES : Oral till your...

Lis, 40 from Iver, Buckinghamshire

We are looking for some extra fun with someone that can join me and my hubby... Don't mind if male or female... Both every open minded... I DO NOT FUCK ON MY OWN!!!! Please don't get shitty or rude if I don't reply in your time frame... as u can image we get hundreds of messages I will get round to answering

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