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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Single guy or girl in Bearsted looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

My Bed or Yours is an adult contacts service for people of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds looking for some discreet sexual encounters. Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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Emma, 35 from Cardiff, South Glamorgan

Single mum looking to meet guys for some hot kinky fun. I love it when a man takes control of me, I love hard rough kinky sex. Love to be choked as I'm being fucked. I also love being whipped/gagged/tied up/spanked/blind folded and more. I like public sex (and indoor sex). Not into anal or water sports so don't attempt either. Been told I give an awesome blow job . Come on, say hi won't bite (unless u ask me to lol). Waiting to hear from you. Message me here and we can talk about times/days I can meet....

Absy, 30 from Bearsted, London

I'm very bubbly and wanna meet people who are genuine. I'm a larger gal who wants to have fun looking for new friends and more also 3some with the hubby as he love to watch his slut wife get fucked. We are both straight hope to talk soon xx

Billy, 61 from Kirkby In Ashfield, Nottinghamshire

Hello to everyone that might read this I,m Billy from n.ireland been living in notts area for about 40years Use to play football now referee helps keep me fit. I,m 5-6 going thin on top blue eyes and think I,m Pretty fit for my age (61) Not very good at this dating thing but got to give it a go. Single own flat and car need to know anymore please ask. X Must say to many getting in touch without photo I like to see who I am talking to so please add photo other wise I will not...

Jane, 26 from Oxford, Oxfordshire

Love dirty talk. The nastier the better ;) First give me wink, then give me something harder :p

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