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Kez, 54 from Abbottswood, Hampshire

not looking for married men,one night stands,couples or men who like to dress up in women`s clothing lol.looking to meet that special one who likes to have wkds away,go to the cinema,pub lunches,cosy nights in.cuddles and kisses and what ever pops up lol.

David, 69 from Milford, Derbyshire

To make friends meet nice Lady's meet up for a coffee/meal. And may be mmmmmmmmmm

Cuddles, 55 from Becontree Heath, London

Looking for fun and friendship in and out of the bedroom.

Shelia, 49 from Stalybridge, Greater Manchester

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