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Alex, 32 from Putney, London

(My full name's Alexa in case you're wondering!) I think of myself as pretty good fun, as you can see I'm no fitness freak (like to drink and party with friend a little too much) but my curves are in all the right places. Looking for a little fun after spending too long tormenting myself with relationships and "regular" dating. I like it outdoors (I know, it says that in the 'example' profile but honestly I do). Would prefer not to get caught though, so outdoors but discreet. To be honest I like it anywhere 'different'. Um, what else....

Shelley, 27 from Andover, Hampshire

I am a plus size girl, size 22,my size doesn't really stop me from doing anything. I enjoy both going out and staying in, just depends who I'm with. I enjoy been treated respectfully and made to feel like I'm precious, not asking for much really. I am a good listener and like to help and support others around me. I am hopefully looking for a long term relationship depending how things go. I am not a girl who sleeps with people the first time I meet them, so if that's what your after look elsewhere.

K, 23 from Belgravia, London

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Karen, 52 from Ventnor, Isle Of Wight

Hey there... Not interested in"online fun"!!! Im 5'9" and a curvy size 18. NON SMOKING. If you aren't totally single I'm not interested Looking for good old fashioned proper sexy relationship x!x Someone to push boundaries with ;-) Age range of 47-57....

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