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Ali, 48 from Liverpool, Merseyside

I would really like a passionate affair with a passionate gentleman. Someone whose desire is almost tangible, a person who craves deep kisses which leave you almost breathless but also relishes soft gentle kisses too. I am a one man type of lady and if you like having several partners thats great but thats certainly not for me.I am vety generous but would hate to share a gentleman. I am a real yes and a confident, positive woman I like to be treated like a lady and I just love intimacy and kissing, lots and lots of kissing. I...

Edie, 40 from Lancaster, Lancashire

Edie has yet to add her profile.

Paul, 41 from Waddington, Lincolnshire

Hi, I'm a healthy single male who has a good appetite for loving and sex. I'm not too sure what I am looking for yet but I am open to suggestions. Enjoy being cuddly and holding hands, also good at massages too. I have been single for too long now and beginning to wonder if I have lost my touch. So if you like a good giggle and somebody who is laid back and adventurous, drop me a line ;0)

Joy, 36 from Benfleet, Essex

Hey boys and girls .... just looking for a little fun ... I don't have a lot of free time but when I do I like to make use of it :) I need mental stimulation as well as sexual Think you can keep up Let's find out xxx

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