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Fernando, 53 from Bexleyheath, London

Let's cut short I am Portuguese I enjoy this site for sex only I love sex but I don't get it enough I like to try something new I like to use my tongue a lot one my favourites 69 and dodge style and anal so ladies if you interested I am your men I like to make u come first with my tongue then with my cock so let's please each other and have a good time no strings just fuck or sex tthat's it ladies I cAnt wait to doing a few things to you or vice...

Sarah, 36 from Bexleyheath, London

I haven't put up a picture but happy to send one. I'm blonde, blue eyed, 5'6", average build / slightly curvy. I'm not looking for a relationship. I work hard play hard. I'm looking for a friend with benefits ! Discreet fun wanted ! I'm not looking for a toy boy - nor an older man. I like a nice body, muscular, a sense of humour I'm a sucker for a hard back massage ! I'm not looking to bed hop or a three some: I would like a genuine guy for a discreet relationship. Maybe the impossible is...

Ruby, 55 from Edinburgh, Lothian

Definitely not looking for a partner but hopefully may find a good friend. Live is for living and is too short to miss out on the good things in life. Just looking for some memorable times with a respectful person who can treat me with as much respect and decency as NSA fun will allow for........ A note to all the married men out there. I am single but do not take men to my home so do not ask. Happy to answer anything else you want to know. Thankyou for reading my profile.

Lara, 39 from Llansamlet, West Glamorgan

Can I ride you? No strings fun only. Buxom full figured blonde 38dd Tits, big curvy ass, grabable hips.

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