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Dpaw, 45 from Strabane, County Tyrone

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Jenevive, 47 from Eastbourne, East Sussex

If you are married, perverted, a smoker or below 6ft then please go elsewhere I am on cougar dates and that means I like younger men.. Not newborn babies in their nappies I am not out for mindless sex with numerous guys either I want a strong connection /chemistry and I need to find you engaging and stimulating or I will get bored very quickly I am not willing to put what I think I would like into a category because fwb/nsa/serious relationships aren't where I am at Not interested in sexting or giving you photos of my private...

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