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Sophie, 48 from Great Malvern, Hereford And Worcester

fit and fun looking for fun and hopefully you will enjoy the adventure

Matt, 39 from Blacknotley, London

Ok...I'm a regular guy, polite, gentlemanly, enjoys the gym, and the finer things in life too. I have a really high sex drive and basically want to have more fun than I'm getting! I'm looking for fun loving women to enjoy some adventures with. It'd be great if i could find a regular playmate, but if there are some one off encounters along the way then thats fine too!! I travel a lot with my work so am regularly all over the country, so distance for me isn't really a problem. I dont take life too seriously and enjoy...

Katielou, 27 from Derby, Derbyshire

No weirdos, no over 50s, no water sports!! Love my pussy being licked, mmmm ;) Up for most things. Very open minded

Vikki, 45 from Failsworth, Greater Manchester

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