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My Bed or Yours is for regular people looking for something exciting in the bedroom - someone else to join you and your partner or perhaps you have a few fantasies you want to live out. We let you explore your sexual ideas and help you connect with other people around Brent.

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A quick online search will return thousands of adult dating services, free online personals and a loads of hook up apps but how do you know which ones to trust? We have been in the business for a long time and have seen many adult dating sites come and go over the years. The downfall of many of them is poor customer service, a disregard for the security or members personal details or simple fraudulent behaviour like fake user profiles and activity to encourage membership upgrades. We do not believe in these practices. Everyone you meet on My Bed or Yours is a genuine member looking to either meet other members for sex or the find people for some innocent flirting or one on one cam sex. Our dedicated membership support team is available seven days a week either by email or phone. If you are not 100% satisfied, you can call up, speak to a real person and request a no-quibble refund. We can't say fairer than that.

Did we mention women go absolutely free?

That's right. Every female member who registers for a free profile gets instantly upgraded to premium membership giving them unlimited messaging so they can send and receive as many messages as they like any time of day or night. This is just another way we go the extra mile to ensure all our members are completely satisfied. After all, what's the point of a sex contacts site with no women?

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Does it all sound a bit too good to be true? We'll be honest, it is a bit fantastic. But it's really not that unbelievable when you think about it. People love sex but are usually too timid to just come out and say it. We offer a safe place they can live out their fantasies. We believe that if you offer a good honest service and do what you say you're going to do then people will enjoy using it and keep coming back for more. Which is why we have a constantly growing number of men and women with a healthy fun attitude towards sex. Signing up for a trial account is FREE and doesn't require any sort of credit card. Your free to browse the profiles and set up your own to see if there's someone for you.

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Nemesis, 34 from Brent, London

No matter what you may have heard, size matters. Problem with nudes? Old folks say...you should know better than to buy a pig in a poke... Cock pictures required! You only get one chance to make a first impression! NO gym -mirror selfies / fitness maniacs allowed- NO WAY... ABS -workout- muscle -fitness-type....no thanks, not my cup of tea... - Tell your boyfriend , if he says he's got beef... That I'm a vegetarian and I'm f***ing scared of him.... NO PICTURES =IGNORED ...and... I don't care what other ladies say to that... I'm NOT into dogging, BDSM, Watersports...

Kayza, 37 from Gospel Oak, London

I Learnt from the best my Father... Treat her like a lady and have the upmost Respect always... I shall reveal the rest of me if I wish to That would be telling wouldn't it! It's good to be a bit of a Mystery I detest arrogance please stay clear if you are!

T, 37 from London Colney, Hertfordshire

Ideally I would prefer someone younger than myself..

Bary, 39 from Greenwich, London

Bary has yet to add his profile. Ask Bary for more info.

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