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Maxine, 54 from Charlton, London

I'm a widow looking for one to one, I love going out pubbing it and for meals, going for walks in the countryside and I love cozying up at home watching a good movie on the TV. I'm looking for a guy that wants to get to know me inside and outside the bedroom

Gill, 47 from Stockport, Greater Manchester

I've just come out of a long-term, sexless relationship. Feeling very frustrated and unfulfilled. Long to be ravished/made love to, thoroughly and passionately - by someone confident, reasonably good looking, muscular and well-endowed. Must be very local and be able to accommodate. I'm interested in trying new things, eg. being dominated (but nothing too kinky), different positions, perhaps a bit of role play. And I would definitely like more orgasms! A regular Friend With Benefits would be ideal, and, to be completely honest, eventually I'd like something more serious. So, if you're just after a quick f**k with minimal...

Wendy, 48 from Ruddington, Nottinghamshire

Hello..I'm looking for local to Nottingham. .. not interested in Web cam ... any questions please ask.... oh n to avoid embarrassment I'm a size 18 ..

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