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David, 50 from Alwoodley, West Yorkshire

Looking for oral and anal fun

Sharon, 50 from Carshalton, London

No point keep winking if your settings either block me or you don't answer if I message you!! If married and still with your wife and just wanting to cheat please don't bother reading any further! Just looking for an honest, genuine, NOT married or unhappily married man. Don't expect to get a nice reply if you do message and 'unhappily' married!!!! Don't be offended but if your under 35, don't bother messaging. Hate liars so if u thinking of not being honest, don't bother

Babs, 49 from Carshalton, London

I love a man who is adept at playing with my nipples (properly). This does get me going.

Vanessa, 26 from East Dulwich, London

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