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Jayne, 49 from Chatham, London

I'm looking to meet someone to share my life with. Someone local or not too far to regularly see for days out nights out and days in. I'm missing romance in my life and I'm thinking if I don't find it on here I'll move on. Please don't message me if you're into one off thing.

Alex, 25 from Craigavon, County Armagh

I do have a boyfriend, but I need more fun. I love older men. I also love to role play. I want to chat, send and receive dirty texts and pictures/videos! I do have kik, if you would like my username just ask! I am active, I go to the gym 4 to 5 times a week. I like to do shopping, especially for sex toys and sexy underwear

Jonathan, 57 from Penrith, Cumbria

Looking for my all in one, my friend, my lover and my Princess. A lass who wants to be spoilt cos she is worth it I want too belong to you! If I can't have my Princess can I have a "young sugar babe.....please.....someone too spoil". Playing safe or not I don't mind.

Fiona, 43 from Brixton, London

I am easy going I like be flirty and have good laugh and enjoy sex!

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