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Dreamer, 46 from Lancaster, Lancashire

I'm impossible, loyal, honest, sarcastic and have a great sense of humour and fun. I love to have a giggle and always wear a smile. I'm single, straight and live on my own in Lancaster. Looking to find new friends message me lets chat and see where it leads I have at times a sarcastic sense of humour but enjoy a good laugh. Relationship are a lot like algebra Have you ever looked at your X and wondered Y ?

Kevin, 62 from Gateshead, Tyne And Wear

Hi looking for NSA discreet relationship feeling a bit trapped. Would love an erotic adventure with someone that could bring back the fun and adventure into my sex life . I'm a retired gentleman from a Senior position. Love to party love to dance. Love to treat a lady . An unselfish lover the women always comes first (excuse the Pun). Love to fulfill fantasies for others as well as my own. Genuine replies only please

Jess, 20 from Tiverton, Devon

I'm here for a bit of NSA fun! I love an older gentleman and find I get on with people very well. I'm a huge sucker for an Irish accent. I'm not much into anal at the moment but maybe sometime in the future... also I'm not a huge fan of kissing but don't mind the occasional nibble! Don't be afraid to send me a message, and please don't be offended if I don't reply - I'm not on here much.

Claire, 37 from Elton, Cheshire

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