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Lisa, 45 from Dunstable, Bedfordshire

I am a big girl,BBW is what im classed as...lot of me!! Yes I do have huge breasts and big nipple's !!! It is what I'm asked the most ,Despite my large frame I do go to the gym,slowly loosing weight and completed a 5km funrun ...very determined to reach my goals! I have been separated a couple of years so not looking for anything particularly serious at the moment ,although never say never as you never know who you might meet and if something special happens then why stop it. Not into one nighters ,i am on a...

Stephanie, 42 from Clapham Common, London

I am 100 single and genuine but cannot accommoate due to other 'humans' living with me atm Anything u want to ask me? Go ahead - I am pretty unshockable. Definitely not into scat (revolting), animals, incest, strangulation or anything illegal or painful! - and YES I have been asked all these. Oh and only single men please - cant be dealing with crazy gfs or wifes ( especially when they find out u have used their phone contract to contact me!). Oh and IF I add you to Whatsapp don't expect sleazy dirty videos or pussy pics after...

Lucy, 28 from Lewes, East Sussex

NO MARRIED MEN! Can't b dealing with that. I am NOT just looking 4 sex. I want more than that

malcolm, 61 from Five Ashes, East Sussex

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