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Rosie, 47 from Keynsham, Avon

Only on for chat don't like liars there worse than thiefs not into chattin married men I like havin a laff and joke and hope u got Gd sense of humour

David, 32 from Swansea, West Glamorgan

I'm free all the time

Del, 48 from Clapham South, London

Hi,I'm a real female,promise ;-) the photos are of me and are recent. I'm from Yorkshire originally,still have the accent and go back for visits now and then. I'm 48,look a bit younger, have long blond hair and green eyes,I'm 5'2" and size 8 I'm straightforward,easy to get on with a quick sense of humour,bit of a night owl,if you're yawning at 10 and get up at the crack of dawn,we won't get on. Single,no kids,ideally looking for a casual relationship,with fun and good times in and out of bed. You could let me know what kind of thing...

Bianca, 33 from Clapham South, London

Hi everybody, I just moved from London last January. By the way, Im very interested in outdoor activities and I am also indulged in B D S M for the past 2 years now... I am looking for someone who is interested to learn and to be a part of this lifestyle... Don't hesitate to catch my attention if interested.....

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