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Gilly, 51 from Walthamstow, London

No face pic no chat rant over. Looking for a partner in crime who is open minded to go fetish clubbing as I'm a lover of all things latex. I'm quirky and kinky looking for someone I feel a spark, compatible and have a connection with to have fun and try new things. Ideally looking for a relationship, I'm not up for a random one night fuck, so don't message asking if I'm free for a quickie because I never will be, you will be auto deleted I appreciate respect. I'm not interested in your cock pictures I need...

Veronica, 48 from Didsbury, Greater Manchester

NEWSFLASH...NEWSFLASH... Non smokers only please *Don't bother winking at me. They get deleted. *Wanna fuck, I'd do you and get yer tits out messages will be ignored and the magic finger may well ignore you too...permanently *Txt spk...urg Now then...where was I.... Dear Reader... Read carefully... Fat chick...flabby thighs, bingo wings and soft belly. But a great arse to bang against with a defined waist to hold onto Intelligent, well educated and well read, I would like to meet an equally intelligent gentleman for romance and sweaty, sheet clenching monogomous sex. I would hope to see a lover weekly...

Tuneman, 34 from Colindale, London

I'm pretty easy going and relaxed, looking for NSA action (and an appreciation for discretion) Love foreplay, 'exploring' and massage both ways. Happy to travel (but real busy time at the moment and my schedule is like quicksand changing all the time. Will try to respond to messages promptly, but won't be instant)

Tracy, 50 from Norwich, Norfolk

Im officially a grandmother, but still get turned on by really young guys. Anyone interested in nsa fun while hubby at work

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