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Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Colindale for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

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It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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Does it all sound a bit too good to be true? We'll be honest, it is a bit fantastic. But it's really not that unbelievable when you think about it. People love sex but are usually too timid to just come out and say it. We offer a safe place they can live out their fantasies. We believe that if you offer a good honest service and do what you say you're going to do then people will enjoy using it and keep coming back for more. Which is why we have a constantly growing number of men and women with a healthy fun attitude towards sex. Signing up for a trial account is FREE and doesn't require any sort of credit card. Your free to browse the profiles and set up your own to see if there's someone for you.

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Tyler, 51 from Colindale, London

What am I looking for... A regular partner to meet every so often to lock ourselves away from ordinary life and be selfish with. Developing a friendship and with the right chemistry that leads to the passionate love making not meaningless sex. Listening to your boundaries, and then taking you up too them, and maybe see you go just outside your comfort zone so we go a little pass our boundaries, Letting go is about building trust. In between those weeks to chat flirt and tease and be there for each other.

Claire, 55 from Colindale, London

Great sense of humour,loves watching Rugby,Cricket,Motorsport,.I enjoy cooking, reading, going out for a drink, meals etc.and meeting and spending time with new people, travelling.I am honest,trustworthy, eager to be guided in making us both happy I am shy and. nervous .Hoping to meet a tall handsome,energetic medium build man to maybe show me the ropes. I can be collected and returned most daytimes and or evenings .Please send me. photographs and details.

Jen, 45 from Denmead, Hampshire

Mmmmmm what to say I'm here to meet guys girls and couples

Victoria, 21 from Colindale, London

fun amd outgoing girl looking for some guilt free fun - wont let me add pictures but will happily send via mail message me for any information x

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